These are my step by step instructions on how to make a proper cup of tea (using British teabags). Although you can use fancy teacups, this is all about everyday tea-making in mugs.

Pouring tea into a teacup

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Hopefully, by the time you’ve reached the bottom, you’ll know how to make a “proper” cup of tea.

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mug, teapot, cosy and packets of tea
*BLETHER will be explained at the end of the post.

My American “tea vs coffee” theory.

I have a theory that from the day of the famous Boston Tea Party, Americans continued their boycott of tea for a very, very long time. Given tea’s association with the tyranny from the “mother country,” this is the reason that I think coffee became the preferred hot beverage in this country. What do you think?

cream bun and a mug of tea
Recipe for cream bun: click the photo.

Tea is an institution in the UK. Its fibers are woven into the British culture in such a way that it is difficult to describe to a “non-Brit.” I came across this video a while ago and was so awed by the impact a beverage can have on a country.

FYI to Americans, Eastenders is a popular soap-opera type show in the UK. When the show finishes, most viewers turn the kettle on for a cup of tea resulting in a huge surge for electricity!

Click here or the photo for my proper scone recipe. 😍

afternoon tea scones with tea

British Tea Bags

I put “proper” in quotation marks because this is my version of how to make a proper cup of tea. It’s not the “proper-proper” tea made with loose leaf tea, of course. That’s more for a leisurely afternoon tea, but this is an everyday process with tea bags which is less time consuming. In the UK they say to put one teabag per person and “one for the pot.” However, in my opinion that’s too strong for most people in the US and Canada who are used to a weaker tea.

cup of tea

If you are using a British brand of tea, which is already much stronger and has a lot more flavor than most US tea brands, you might just want to use a teabag per person. I like Ty-phoo and PG Tips for everyday tea, which are imported from the UK (I buy them on Amazon when I don’t fill up every available spot in my suitcase when I return from a trip 😬).

Australian Crunch bars with a cup of tea
Mug of tea with Australian crunch bars. Click the photo for the recipe.

Three teabags for a 32 ounce pot, not completely filled to the rim (about 4 cups of tea) is perfect for my family, but if you decide to try this tea, experiment and see if you like it stronger, and adjust accordingly.

How to Make a Proper Cup of Tea

First of all, a proper-proper cup of tea is made with loose leaf tea, but most of us don’t have time for that on a daily basis, two or three times a day.

So this is mostly aimed at US households who are used to a Lipton teabag in hot water in a mug. This will be a big change in flavor for those of you.

1.Boil the water.

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First, bring water to a boil, but do not let it keep boiling. Remove it as soon as it comes to a boil. Hot water will not do. We want the tea leaves to infuse the flavor of the tea into the water, and tepid or hot water will not do this nearly as well as boiling water. I use an electric kettle because we make a lot of tea. (I don’t recommend my Breville anymore as it sometimes won’t shut off.)

kettle to boil water for proper tea

You will also need a good teapot, preferably one made in the UK (they know their tea there). However, there are other choices (I stay away from Chinese made, due to history with lead and other chemicals in their products). My friend gave me this French teapot by Guy Degrenne which is a bit pricy, but oh, so chic!

good teapot for proper cup of tea

I bought this little melamine trivet at a charity shop in the UK to keep my teapot warm when making tea. I have granite countertops which will cool off the pot more quickly than I want. I like these wooden trivets (if you’re going to buy new) because they are more eco-friendly than melamine.

tea warmer

2.Warm the teapot for the perfect cup of tea.

So, when the kettle is almost boiling, put some water in the pot, just to warm up the teapot. Return the kettle to its base (or stovetop) to make it come to a full boil. Swirl the hot water around the teapot and then drain it out. Make sure to have your teabags ready.

pg tips typhoo bags for a proper cup of British tea

3.Add the teabags and water to the pot.

I’m using a PG Tips and a Typhoo teabag together. This is something my daughter started doing, and we all liked the combination. When the water just comes to a boil, put the teabags in the teapot and immediately pour the water into the pot.

how to make a proper cup of tea

how to make a proper cup of british tea
The teabags doing their job!

4.Use a tea cosy (if you have one).

Next, if you have a tea cosy, cover the pot. If not, use a heavy tea towel or something to keep the pot warm. You’ll discover that this also makes a big difference in the outcome of the flavor of the tea.

using a cosy for a proper cup of tea

My daughter just decided to start making tea cosies one day!

tea cosies for teapots

5.Steep the tea.

Let the tea steep for about 3 to 5 minutes; the longer you leave it, the stronger it will be. (Three minutes in a tea pot is pretty weak.)

6.Pour the tea and add the milk (and sugar, if desired).

Now it’s time to pour the perfectly steeped tea.

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how to make a proper cup of tea

If you’re going to add sugar, add it before the milk so that it has a chance to start melting before adding the cold milk. Regarding the whole “milk, or tea first” debate, it used to be that milk went in first to protect the china from cracking, so that’s no longer a reason.

I think it’s a personal preference. I like to add the milk after so I can better control the ratio of milk to tea, and you may think I’m crazy, but I say it tastes better, too. I also prefer whole milk. 2% milk is passable, but don’t offer me 1% or even talk to me about skim milk. Although you should NEVER add cream to a cup of tea, the natural cream that’s in whole milk adds a lot to the flavor of a proper cup of tea.

cup of proper British tea

Now, enjoy with a Bourbon biscuit.

bourbon biscuits recipe British classic

Or a Custard Cream or two, and delight in the fact that you know how to make a proper cup of tea!

photo of a handheld, half eaten homemade Custard Cream biscuit.

My friend, Cynthia at What a Girl Eats has a lovely lavender shortbread recipe.

cup of tea and shortbread
Courtesy of What a Girl Eats

Enjoy with any snack or cake, like this gluten free tea bread! The possibilities are endless!

gluten free tea bread with mug of tea and teapot

Printable step by step directions on How to Make a Proper Cup of Tea.

Now for your Glaswegian (Glasgow dialect) Lesson:

glaswegian mug with blether on it

Basically, “to blether” means to chat-a lot.

“A blether” is someone who talks incessantly. Gee, I wonder why I have this mug? 🙂

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